Fitting In vs. Belonging—Why They're Not the Same Thing
In this episode, Kaley continues the series Why Do I Feel Like I Don’t Belong? by tackling one of the most common statements shared in her research: "I don't fit in." From middle school outfits to left-off lunch invites and excluded pickleball group texts, we’ve all felt the sting of trying, and failing, to fit in.
But what if "fitting in" isn't actually what we need? This week, we explore the difference between performing for human approval and walking in the settled security of true Biblical belonging.
In this episode, we discuss:
The Exhaustion of Fitting In: Why trying to fit in is a moving target, fueled by the fear of being left behind, and bound to leave us feeling broken or exhausted.
Belonging as a Settled Position: How true belonging isn't earned through works, clothing choices, or social invitations. It is established by your position in Christ (Ephesians 2:4-6).
Chosen, Seated, and Adopted: Why God chose you before the foundation of the world to adopt you into His family, and love you with the same love He has for Jesus (Ephesians 1:3-6).
2 Reflection Questions to Reorient Your Heart: Practical, scripture-backed questions to help you identify whose approval you’re chasing and remove the obstacles keeping you from resting in your identity (Galatians 1:10, Romans 8:28-30).
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